Posted: Thursday, November 06, 2025
Author: Brian Gilman, Chief Executive Officer | Col, USMC (Ret)
In America, we’ve created a damaging narrative that combat veterans are victims—broken by their service and in need of being helped, fixed - their military service pathologized. This narrative is both false and destructive. Veterans are not fragile; they are among our nation’s most capable and resilient citizens.
The tragedy is not that military service harms them, but that our system for “transitioning” them to civilian life often fails to provide the pathways to meaning, belonging, and purpose after service. Military life fulfills profound human needs—honor, significance, challenge, meaning, connection, and service to something greater than oneself. Too often, civilian life replaces that with isolation, aimlessness, and pity. It’s no wonder that many veterans begin to question whether their lives still matter.